A Small Note

Brett & I have our initial IVF consult on Friday April 3. Don't forget to check back for new Science Project information. 

Also, we're so grateful for the continued prayers & support that we've gotten. We are really excited about the Science Project & think it's completely cool. 

Love.

Let the Science Project Begin!

Remember in Biology class when you were learning about genetics & you had to draw the four-square with big B for brown eyes and little b for blue eyes? You had to decide what the chances of having a blue eyed baby were if you had blue eyes and your spouse had a brown eye gene & a blue eye gene. Yeh, that's what this is, just on Steroids. 

We talked with a Lady from Reprogenetics today. That's the company that will test the genetic makeup of whatever offspring GRS will create for us. She was very nice & given that I have 9 pages of notes from her, she was very thorough. Here's what we have. Since this is my Science Fair Project for 2009, I'll lay it on the table. It's fun reading, great for hanging out on the beach or ... not.

Generally speaking, when there's a 1st trimester miscarriage (which all of ours have been), 50% of the time it's been because of aneuploidy, which means extra chromosomes. That doesn't mean ours necessarily, it means all 1st trimester miscarriages. That usually happens when one egg has been fertilized by two sperm or a sperm that has two sets of chromosomes. Get this: increasing age means a higher risk of aneuploidy. So HAH! I'm NOT young! So THERE! In our age group, when the stimulate the maturation of the eggs, if they get 10 eggs, there may be 5 or 6 that are reasonable to fertilize & test. Sometimes, there's a bad surprise & they'll only get one or two or none. In that case, they'll stimulate again & try to get more & better eggs.

There are two types of tests they can do. The first is called PGD. That stands for Preimplantation Genetic Diagnosis. The second is called CGH. That stands for Comparative Genomic Hybridization. 

CGH is a test in which they allow the embryo to grow for 5 days. On the 5th day, GRS extract maybe 5 or so cells from a spot that's not on the baby (in other words, from where the other pregnancy tissue is growing), put them on microscope slides & send them up for genetic testing. GRS then freezes the blastocysts until the results come back. The scientists at Reprogenetics will compare the genetic material to what should be there & send back information to GRS about all 24 chromosomes. There are some risks involved in the freezing & thawing of the blastocysts and the implantation rate goes down with freezing also. And because this is a VERY new test, science doesn't know what the side effects to the child might be. This test is more common outside the US and has only recently been done here. Brett & I aren't real keen on this test, though it does seem very thorough. We're not interested in being anyone's guinea pigs. 

The PGD test is different. In this case, GRS will fertilize whatever eggs I produce under medication.  They will allow the embryoes to grow for three days, take one cell from each, place them on microscope slides & send them to Reprogenetics in New Jersey. They will do a probe test on each cell in which they put a something on the slide that matches up to a particular chromosome. The something will light up in a florescent color. This way they will tag 12 chromosomes & they can then count them. They test for the 12 chromosomes that cause the most common problems. Brett & I are leaning towards this test. It's been around since 1990 & there has not been any higher risk of birth defects than with normally conceived children. Any risk is incurred during the biopsy.

PGD is not 100% accurate. They aim for over 90% accuracy, but there can be issues. The probe result can be unclear, the probe result can be wrong or there could be mosaic problems (ie. this cell's makeup isn't indicative of the rest of the cells). 

So, that's it in a nutshell. Science at work in our world!

This is WAY crazier than genetically engineered fruit flies in St. Pius' Science Lab! 

We'll keep you posted!

Love,

Adele & Brett

Progress?

It's been some time since we've written anything because Progress in whatever shape takes time. Brett (Bless him) has been playing phone tag with the woman from the Genetics people in New Jersey. Then he called on Monday & it turned out that the woman with whom he's been playing tag has been called out unexpectedly & who knows for how long. He's been put in contact with someone else, and that seems more likely to get through. So, we're just waiting on that phone call. Unfortunately, Brett has to be the one calling because we're working this conference call around his schedule, which is tight. Once we have these answers, we can get started with Dr. Perloe & get all that action moving. 

I had a wonderful & renewing visit with Mom & Dad R. last weekend. They are an amazing Blessing for me & Brett. It's an incredible thing to have this whole other set of parents to love & nurture us & help us get through this seemingly endlessly ridiculous time. I spent a few days (though I wish it had been longer!) talking with them, laughing, playing & regenerating. When I left (too soon!) on Sunday, I felt positive & confident that we can do this. Thank you Mom & Dad R.!! Love you! We are blessed with a wonderfully supportive family network- all of you who've prayed with us, cried with us, laughed with us & held us up. 

We had a small kick in the stomach recently when people up & down the street have been showing up pregnant. We actually found out about three people in one day. Woof!! Sometimes when that happens (and it's such an overtly visible sign of something that we're struggling with), it seems impossible to stay positive. However, our sweet friends across the street had us over for dinner & fun for the evening & reminded me of the things we treasure - friendships, family, each other... It's so easy to forget our blessings when we're down, but I suppose that's when it's most important to count them. We're so blessed with a wonderful group of friends in the neighborhood who have been there for us through the poop. Brett & I are supremely happy for our neighbors who are going to have babies. Ultimately, the idea of Family is really important to us & there are many families here that are growing. It's a Gift for them! Our Miracle is coming. 

In all, we're very positive. We're excited about Chris & Beth coming for the weekend. We're STOKED about the Chili Cookoff. It's a lot to think about & be happy for. Brett & I are just going through life, drinking good coffee & listening to fabulous music. Only one way for it to get better, and that's coming soon enough. We love y'all very much & we'll post again once we know more from the genetics people & get going with The Science Project/Miracle Making. 

Gotta buy a lottery ticket if you want to win the lottery!

xoxo,

Adele & Brett